How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring

How to Choose the Perfect Engagement Ring: Shapes, Metals and Gemstones

Hello, I’m Lucy, founder of Lae Jewellery. Helping people find or design their perfect engagement ring is one of the most rewarding parts of what I do. An engagement ring is not just jewellery, it is a lifelong symbol of love and commitment. I still remember my own engagement and later my wedding in August 2025, on the beautiful Devon coast. That ring carries our story, and I would love for your ring to do the same for you.

Why choosing the right engagement ring matters

Worn every day, your engagement ring becomes part of you. It reflects your style, your story, and your future together. Whether you are drawn to a classic diamond solitaire or a personalised gemstone ring, the right choice will feel both beautiful and meaningful.

How to choose your engagement ring gemstone

Traditionally, diamonds have been the most popular engagement stone, but many couples are now choosing coloured gemstones for individuality. Sapphires, rubies, emeralds and aquamarines are all durable enough for daily wear, while semi precious stones like garnet or amethyst add personal symbolism.

• Diamond: Classic brilliance, symbol of eternal love.
• Sapphire: Timeless blue hues, symbol of loyalty.
• Emerald: Vivid green, representing renewal and growth.
• Garnet: January birthstone, symbolising strength and protection.

Tip: Birthstones make a wonderful choice if you want a ring with personal meaning. I often design family birthstone pieces for clients who want to carry loved ones with them every day.

What is the best metal for an engagement ring?

The choice of metal changes the look and feel of your ring, and it also affects durability:

• Yellow gold: Classic, warm and timeless.
• White gold: Sleek and modern with a rhodium finish.
• Rose gold: Romantic, flattering on all skin tones.
• Platinum: Naturally white, hypoallergenic and extremely durable.

Consider lifestyle here. If your partner works with their hands a lot, platinum or a harder gold alloy may be the best option for strength and longevity.

Popular engagement ring settings

The setting is how the gemstone is held, and it dramatically changes the look of the ring:

• Solitaire: One central stone, timeless elegance.
• Halo: A central stone surrounded by smaller diamonds for extra sparkle.
• Trilogy: Three stones representing past, present and future.
• Vintage-inspired: Filigree and detailing for a romantic, antique feel.

Many couples are surprised when trying on rings, so I always say keep an open mind. The ring you fall in love with may not be the one you imagined at first.

Eco-friendly and sustainable choices

At Lae Jewellery, sustainability is close to my heart. Recycled metals, conflict-free gemstones and lab-grown diamonds are all wonderful ways to choose an engagement ring with a lighter footprint. Knowing that your ring has been responsibly sourced makes it even more special.

FAQs: Engagement Rings

What finger does an engagement ring go on in the UK?

Traditionally, engagement rings are worn on the fourth finger of the left hand, often called the ring finger, as it was once believed to have a vein connected directly to the heart.

What is the average budget for an engagement ring?

There is no set rule. Some spend a few hundred pounds, others several thousand. The most important thing is choosing a ring that feels right for your story and budget. Handmade gemstone rings can often be more affordable than diamonds, while being just as meaningful.

How do I secretly find out my partner’s ring size?

A good trick is to borrow a ring they wear on their ring finger and measure it. Alternatively, ask a close friend or family member for help. If in doubt, it is better to size up slightly, as rings can always be adjusted later.

Final thoughts from me...

Choosing an engagement ring should feel exciting, not stressful. My advice is to focus on what reflects your love story, not just trends. Whether you want to explore our rings collection or design something truly personal with our Create Your Own service, I am here to help guide you. From my little workshop in Wales, with two lively children and two spaniels by my side, I feel privileged every time I create a ring that becomes part of a couple’s journey. I would love to be part of yours too.